A Stranger's Kindness




Steven Corbin

 
© Copyright 2024 by Steven Corbin




An alley in Da Nang.  Photo courtesy of the author.
An alley in Da Nang.  Photo courtesy of the author.

Steven, a traveler from Canada, wandered through Da Nang, captivated by the city’s vibrant chaos. The air was rich with the aroma of sizzling street food, the sounds of motorbikes weaving through narrow streets, and the laughter of locals enjoying their evening. The warm golden hue of the setting sun bathed the city in a soft glow, casting long shadows that danced with the rhythm of life around him. Each corner Steven turned revealed something new—a bustling market, an old temple, or a quiet alley—offering fresh perspectives on a world so different from his own.

Steven had embarked on this journey through Vietnam not merely as a tourist, but as a seeker. Back in Canada, he had felt a growing sense of restlessness, a feeling that his life lacked direction and deeper meaning. His days had blurred into a monotonous routine, leaving him yearning for something more—a sense of purpose, a connection to the broader world. He hoped that immersing himself in a culture distinct from his own would provide new insights, inspiration, and perhaps a clearer sense of his path in life.

It was during one of these wanderings that Steven’s path crossed with that of an older man, whose name he never quite grasped. The man sat outside a modest home, perched on a low wooden stool, his face a map of deep lines etched by time and experience. He wore a simple yet dignified outfit—an old, worn shirt and trousers, with a traditional conical hat resting on his knee. Despite his humble appearance, there was an aura of quiet dignity about him, tempered by a warm, inviting smile that seemed to welcome all who passed by.

As Steven approached, the man spoke in slow Vietnamese, his tone as inviting as his gesture. “Chào bạn,” he greeted, motioning Steven closer. Though Steven’s Vietnamese was limited, he understood enough to respond with a polite nod and a simple “Chào.” The man gestured toward a small bottle filled with a clear liquid—rice wine, a local specialty. “Rượu,” he said, offering a cup to Steven and raising his own in a toast.

With a smile, Steven accepted the cup. They clinked their cups together, and Steven took a sip, the strong, sharp flavor of the wine surprising him. Despite the language barrier, there was an unspoken understanding between them—a shared curiosity and openness that bridged the gap. The old man spoke, gesturing animatedly, his hands weaving stories that Steven could only partially grasp. He caught words about family, the city, and perhaps a bit of local history, each snippet adding to the tapestry of the evening.

The old man brought out a small plate of food, local dishes Steven had never seen before. He gestured for Steven to eat, watching with a kind of paternal pride as Steven sampled each dish. The flavors were a revelation—spicy, sweet, sour, each bite a new experience. They ate and drank together, the old man occasionally refilling their cups and offering toasts that Steven joined with laughter.

As the evening wore on, Steven felt a pleasant warmth from the rice wine, loosening his thoughts and relaxing his mind. The conversation, though still stilted and fragmented by the language barrier, flowed more easily. The old man’s laughter was infectious, and Steven found himself laughing along, caught up in the simple joy of the moment.

Yet, as the night deepened, Steven felt a growing sense of melancholy. He wanted to express his gratitude to the old man, to thank him for his kindness and generosity, for the unexpected gift of this shared experience. But the limitations of language left him feeling helpless, unable to fully convey the depth of his appreciation. He tried, fumbling with the few Vietnamese phrases he knew, interspersed with English in the hope that some meaning would seep through. “Cảm ơn,” he said, placing a hand over his heart, hoping the gesture would communicate what words could not.

The old man nodded, his eyes twinkling with a kindness that suggested he understood more than Steven realized. In that moment, Steven felt a pang of sadness—a longing for a deeper connection, for the ability to bridge the gap between their worlds. Yet, there was also a profound beauty in the simplicity of their interaction, in the shared silence that spoke volumes.

The night grew darker, and Steven knew it was time to leave. He stood, offering the old man a respectful bow, which was graciously returned. As he stepped back into the street, he felt a mixture of emotions—gratefulness for the kindness shown to him, a wistful sadness for the limitations of language, and a joyful appreciation for the simple, shared moments that often carried the most profound meanings.

Walking back to his apartment, the memory of the evening lingered with Steven. He thought about the old man’s quiet dignity, his generous spirit, and the warmth of his hospitality. The encounter had left a lasting mark on Steven, a reminder of the kindness of strangers and the unexpected connections that travel could bring. It was a lesson in humility and gratitude, a recognition of the shared humanity that transcended cultural and linguistic barriers.

The next morning, as he continued his journey through Vietnam, Steven carried with him not just the memories of sights and flavors, but the intangible, yet invaluable, lessons of empathy and gratitude. He knew that the old man would remain a part of his story, a quiet influence that would shape his perspective and actions long after he had left Vietnam.

The true essence of travel was not merely about seeing new places or tasting new foods, but about the people he met along the way—the fleeting yet meaningful encounters that enriched his understanding of the world and his place in it.

In the end, it wasn’t the words exchanged or the rice wine shared that mattered most, but the understanding and respect that passed between them. Steven learned that sometimes, the most profound expressions of gratitude and connection are found not in words, but in shared silence and the unspoken language of the heart.


I am an aspiring writer with a passion for creating compelling stories. Hailing from Trois-Rivi
ères in Québec, Canada, I have a diverse background that includes a bachelor's degree in Human Resources and a diploma in Psychology. An avid traveler, my love for cultural experiences and simple, meaningful moments often finds its way into my writing, making my work resonate with readers on a deep emotional level.




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