March
was and still is my favorite month of the year. Even now, I enjoy
breathing in the crisp, clean air and watching the trees begin to
blossom. The days grow longer and warmer; the birds chirp once again,
heralding spring’s arrival. More importantly, though, March is
‘plantin’ season,’ as Dad liked to call it. March
was the month when he transformed our backyard into a bountiful
garden full of fresh fruits and vegetables.
When
‘plantin’ season’ began in 1961, Dad roused me from
a deep sleep. “Today’s the day!” he said, his face
beaming. “Put on your gardening clothes, grab your gear, and
meet me in the backyard. It’s ‘plantin’ season.
Hurry now, time’s a wastin’!”
I
quickly dressed in a pair of old denim jeans, a long-sleeved flannel
shirt, and my gardening boots, grabbing some peanut butter toast on
my way to the garage. I rummaged through the shelves until I found my
gardening apron, gloves, and straw hat. Excitement fluttered deep in
the pit of my stomach as I raced toward the backyard pausing
temporarily to smell the damp earth and to relish the feeling of the
warm sun on my skin. I passed the old pecan tree with its fresh, new
leaves, its branches stretching out like welcoming arms, and found
Dad walking off a 15’ by 15’ square space.
“This
is the most level place in the backyard, the perfect spot with plenty
of sunshine,” he said enthusiastically.
We
worked together pulling weeds and removing grass before he tilled the
soil. I stood on the sidelines and watched Dad, his calloused hands
gripping the handles of the tiller as he plowed through the rich
soil. With awe, I observed the dirt being turned over, revealing its
dark, fertile secrets. He shoveled compost over the area, which I
racked making sure the compost was evenly distributed over the garden
area.
After
a quick lunch, we drove to the local feed and seed store with the
truck’s windows rolled down, the smell of fresh spring air
flowing across our faces and sweaty brows. As we made our way into
town, I gazed out the window staring at the planted fields,
envisioning our own garden blooming with life. We arrived at the
store abuzz with customers and filled with the familiar scents of
soil and seeds.
“Here’s
a list of the vegetable seed packets for you to pick out,” Dad
said handing me a somewhat crumpled piece of paper with dirt smudges
on it. The list included my favorites: cucumber, radishes,
watermelon, lettuce, squash, bell peppers, tomatoes, chives, and
potatoes. I carefully placed each seed packet in our basket and found
Dad standing in line at the register waiting to checkout. We loaded
up the truck with our purchases: Dad’s new shovel, my hand
trowel, new gardening gloves, and other miscellaneous gardening
items. We made our way home, filled with a sense of expectancy and
excitement.
Back
home, I noticed something different as I passed by the old pecan
tree. A small, wooden sign hung from one of the branches. It read,
"Etgen Family Garden."
“Look
what your mom did while we were gone!” Dad chuckled and ruffled
my hair.
For
the remainder of the day, Dad and I worked side by side, digging deep
holes and carefully placing each seed inside, covering them with a
thin blanket of dirt and mulch. The work was hard, but I enjoyed
every moment of it. The days and weeks went by, and our garden slowly
came to life. The once barren land was filled with vibrant colors and
delicious smells. I frequently joined Dad when he tended the garden,
watering it and nurturing it with love, care, and patience. When
harvest season finally arrived, we were rewarded with the most
delicious and bountiful crop.
Even
now when I think back to ‘plantin’ season, I feel a sense
of pride. Ours wasn’t just a garden; it was a symbol of our
family's love and our hard work. As the seasons changed and the
vegetables grew, so did our bond. The old pecan tree still stands as
does the now faded sign hanging beneath its open arms. Every time I
see that sign, I'm reminded of that day in mid-March 961 when Dad
taught me more than ‘plantin.’
Through
gardening I developed an appreciation for the seasons and rhythms of
nature and life itself. I learned observation skills, patience,
living with faith, developing a sense of expectancy, and enjoying the
fruits of one’s labor. Most of all, I cherished the time I
spent with Dad—our very own special father-daughter time in
which my love and admiration for him grew and remains in my heart to
this day.