The
old house, built
in 1895, was the best of weathered antiques having hugged North
Rogers Street from days of horses, to days of horse-powered engines,
and now to electric cars. As the story goes, Grandad purchased the
old house shortly after returning from WWI by merely signing his name
on a piece of paper. He added ‘indoor’ plumbing, a
garage, a carport, remodeled the inside, and replaced the roof—a
roof that protected the house and would do so for many-a-year to come.
Shortly
thereafter,
Granddad moved his wife and four children into the old house, and it
was the place my mother, uncles, and aunt grew up, calling it ‘home.’
Later, my cousins, brothers, and I spent many joyful days inside the
old house. It is my second ‘home,’ and the calling of the
years somehow takes me there. I can remember each room as far back
as my memory goes. I can touch them, feel the texture on the walls,
smell the scent of Granny’s perfume, and hear Granddad
shuffling across the creaking wooden floors.
In
my daydreams I am
once again sitting on the porch swing with Granddad watching the
Missouri sunset, a sunset as bold as one of Granny’s persimmon
jellies. The trees gradually become silhouettes, their branches
gently swaying in the wind. The first sound of the nocturnal
creatures comes—chirping crickets and buzzing mosquitoes. Soon
it grows dark. Then out of nowhere a mysterious yellow twinkling
appears in the night, quick flickers and crackles of incandescent
light too fast for the naked eye. The soft warm glow of lightning
bugs slices through the darkness. I’m enchanted, imagining
Granddad and I have discovered the lair of a great magician.
Inside
the house is
a kaleidoscope of memories—photographs adorn the walls, each of
them conjuring up the emotions of those moments long-since passed.
Though the exterior of the house has suffered many winters and storm
seasons, the old wooden floor has been sheltered inside. The floor,
made of American walnut, is more cinnamon in color where the varnish
holds and paler in the regions that have more wear, having been
shaped by the soles of our family—of generations living and
loving there. It’s as if the house holds onto happy memories in
its floorboards and walls, for inside we were safe and warm even on
cold, wintry days.
During
the holiday
season, my parents occasionally bundled up us three kids and drove
from Texas to Missouri in Dad’s cramped 1949 pickup truck,
making sure we arrived at the old house by Christmas Eve. How special
those holiday family gatherings were—a time when the old house
was filled with children romping about, holiday shenanigans, abundant
laughter, warm drinks, and loads of holiday goodies! I still remember
the gingerbread men with their chocolate buttons and eyes resting on
a plate in Granny’s kitchen. They were quickly dunked in
homemade hot chocolate as the family sat around the vintage oak table
and talked. That table, like the old house, has aged with us,
becoming more distinct with age. It’s surface now has the face
of a beloved old man, as if all those lines were his well-earned
wrinkles.
When
summertime
rolled around, the backyard hosted many a family get-together. My
grandparents were frugal folks who for many years converted their
backyard into a garden that reaped a bountiful harvest that included
tomatoes, squash, okra, sugar snap peas, and cucumbers picked at just
the right time for making crispy bread and butter pickles—Granny’s
favorite.
Oh
so many precious
memories live and breathe inside that old house—too many to
write about in any one story. I pause from reminiscing and
storytelling wishing I could somehow roll back the clock, but I
can’t. Apparently, I've been the victim of getting
older—something that happens to all of us at one point or
another. My ‘getting older’ has been going on for quite
some time now and without my knowing it! But getting old is sweeter
because reminiscing and storytelling turns back the hands of time.
Suddenly, I’m seven again dwelling in the old house enjoying
the people with whom memories were made, and the memories of the old
house and the people who lived there remain with me forever.