Through The Narrow Gate



Pamella Laird



 
© Copyright 2026 by Pamella Laird


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We’d worked on this plan for over four years; would it be the ‘trip’ of our lives? Having (more or less), saved a meagre monthly wage, we two twenty-four-year-olds imagined, if we thought about it at all, this would be a voyage into the unknown.

Years ago, when travelling to another continent or country, chances were, one journeyed by boat (or maybe camel!) For us, this particular day, about halfway through the shipboard journey (15th February, 1955), was a world-shaking event. What Tony and I had decided meant plummeting into the potentially evil base of what we hoped was an extinct volcano. We could only trust in the history related to us on board.

In 1955, my nurse friend Zala, (who is part-Italian) and I set off from our three little islands (known as New Zealand, at the bottom of the world) to further our hospital work experience and, we hoped, to add to our general knowledge of how the rest of the world lived. For the likely two to three years ahead, we had no particular plans other than to find work in London to save as much as we could, then do as much travelling as we might then afford.

New Zealand, (or the Maori name of Aotearoa, as many of us prefer to call it), was possibly a little closer to the Antarctic Continent than the Britain we were heading for, was to the Arctic Continent. So, the temperature of the Equator and the dunking by King Neptune in the ship’s pool, would be a whole new heated experience. At twenty-four, to us, everything was exciting. We were young, we were ready for adventure, and nothing was going to stop us. There was no doubt in our minds—we could cope with anything untoward in this great big world we knew absolutely nothing about.

I want to tell you about one of the wildly different styles of living that we came across during the early days of our journey. For contrast—I had grown up on a farm in the foothills of a mountain range where, from time to time, we children would enjoy a three-foot snowfall and no school. In the days when cars were few and far between, twenty-five miles to our nearest town for shopping was a whole big adventure. Especially the delicious steak pies from the ‘Electric Kitchen.’ Zala had grown up, with no car in a small fishing village with one small grocery store, so you will understand our naivety (or ignorance) of the world we had only read about.

After gaining our nursing degrees following a three-year training course, we set off on a barely planned, so-called ‘Overseas Experience.’ Eventually, after two or three weeks of sailing aboard the liner, Otranto of the Orient Line, and several ports of call, we were in the Indian Ocean, not far from the port of Aden.  

Fortunately, during this time, (we, along with two others,) had made friends with four boys in the cabin next to ours.

Once we arrived in London, this proved a happy arrangement for all our social lives, travel and theatre etc. These friendships continued through the following two years of our work life in and around London. And in some cases, for life. Also, Tony, (who came from a reasonably sized city) and I, had a common interest in classical music.


Eventually, with the ship tied up in port at Aden, and along with the knowledge we had gained from those shipboard talks, Tony and I hired bicycles to climb the famed mountain behind Aden. This ancient volcano forms part of the Shamsan Mountain Range.

We’d learned, that over the centuries, a city called Seera, had grown and developed into a marketing town in the crater of this extinct volcano. Being an extremely hot day, the wild idea that we should get up there to look for ‘Cain’s burial place,’ suggested a mind-boggling challenge ahead.

After the indolence of shipboard life, we thought of it as an ‘energiser,’ especially as we not only had to climb that mountain and enjoy the ‘sights,’ we also had to be back in time for the Otranto’s sailing at six that evening. You will have heard of ‘mad dogs and Englishmen,’ that was us! After pushing ourselves up the four-mile grind (so we’d been told by the locals), we passed through an ancient man-made gap just wide enough for a small car or in our case, two exhausted cyclists. 

I grinned at Tony, “Doesn’t this remind you of that quote?” 

‘Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.’

Oh dear! With time being short, that sounded like Doomsday for us.

This scoria-covered so-called ‘road’ opened into the crater itself. The heat was uncaring of our circumstances, after all, this was our idea! So, no room for sympathy.

Above, in an exotic (unusually to us) dark blue sky, vultures wheeled and circled, a confronting pressure group high above. In front of us rose a craggy rock face, that was a strange mixture of grey, pink and fawn—an eerie and commanding scene. Our descent into the depths of the crater was not dignified; as we sped in jubilation, ‘way down the almost empty road, calling to one another at the spectacle ahead.

Finally, with a sigh of relief, we coasted into what looked to be a huge market town as ancient as a picture in one’s Bible. Here, before us were men in gleaming white robes, white scarves or small, round white hats, but more impressively, some wore solid, decorated leather ‘belts’ that held menacing daggers. Surely, for some reason, a ‘dress-up occasion.’ Pedlars and sellers on street corners, some sitting in the dust, but no apparent begging. Camels here and there in the crowded streets, stalls displayed fruit and vegetables, many of which we had never seen before. No ragged children clinging to mothers, in fact, no women at all.

The burial place of ‘Cain?’ Apparently, this had been commemorated by some sort of rock memorial on the furthest side of the crater. We saw a rock-built possible stone memorial, but there was no chance we could get across there in the little time; so that remained a mystery to us. We had was no way of knowing then, if this was a genuine memorial. Even today, we don't know if this story is myth, or a handy legend for the attraction of tourists.

We were fascinated to find that despite our pale faces, fair hair, and bizarrely, grey flannel suits (both of us) appeared to be accepted as part of the multitude. I suppose our bicycles looked even more wacky, but we were not bothered in any way; not even stared at. It appeared to be a lively crowd of laughing, good-humoured men who were going about their business, whatever that may have been. We guessed that, as a gateway for trade in the Middle East, foreigners from all parts would have been a familiar sight over many, many years, and we were just two more.

Clutching our bicycles in the middle of the cacophony of milling citizens, we had the uncanny feeling we had stepped into a biblical panorama. The sound or noise appeared to be coming from quaint,’ (to us) musical instruments, combined with pedlars’ cries, animals, and surprisingly, cars with stubborn motorists tooting or shouting. Over it all hung a ‘flavour’ of the Middle East that neither of us could define. Was it foodstuff, exotic perfumes, animal odour, or a combination of all? It was different.

In the narrow alleys and streets, surging, (or not) among the motley crowd of men and animals were cars and carts of all pedigree. Some of the carts were two-wheeled, some four, all in various stages of usability. Apparently, if serviceable, they shifted the produce as required, therefore no problem. This was a scene so far from our backgrounds of tree-green, sometimes snow-white, quiet world. I think we both found it almost imaginary. The montage could only be described as strangely colourful, so far from what we ‘Kiwis’ thought of, as ‘normal.’

Tony commented, “Auckland is nowhere near as colourful or haphazard as what we are looking at here. This is something I shall never forget.”

In the middle of this clamour, we were introduced to bargaining—a new way (to us,) of financial dealings as we watched and listened to the haggling. Especially so, as we were among roaming animals such as bullocks, goats, camels, cats, dogs and hens that strayed along roads and onto footpaths. In our homeland, we would have expected most of them to be fenced into a saleyard. Despite the natural habits of animals, the streets were neither bemired nor smelly. We bought bananas for a light lunch, all we felt we could manage in that heat. And, we knew what they were, for we had been warned of unfortunate stomach upsets with unknown food.

We became engrossed in the dream-like quality of riveting noise and exuberant colour that to our Aotearoan (‘Land of the Long White Cloud’) eyes and ears, seemed unreal. Eventually, when Tony looked at his watch, alarmed, we realised we had only a quarter of an hour to get back to the launch to board the Otranto. Now came the agonising push back from the inside of the crater to the narrow gate of our entry of some two hours before. While panic and hard pushing propelled us, it was with huge relief that we reached once more, ‘the gate that is narrow.’

Laughing with delight at what we’d seen and experienced, we whizzed down the outside of the crater towards the harbour town. Our rush can only be described as fast and furious, the penalty for overlooking the time, and fear of being left in a ‘foreign place. We could easily have been abandoned on the harbour-side, watching our liner sail on into the Red Sea. Mobile phones hadn’t been a part of anyone’s life at that stage, so we would have been more or less marooned. We had no idea if there existed a British Consulate in Aden, let alone a representative for New Zealand.

Here, among the shops, we found a young boy of about twelve, who we hoped might return the cycles to their owner. We showed him the receipt from the cycle stall, and asked him to return the bicycles. Although we were a little concerned at our inability to do this ourselves, we buried our worries by giving, in local cash, all we had left in small change to the boy. It seemed he spoke enough English to understand and seemed happy to do what we asked. We were happy too, as we watched him heading off in the right direction, adroitly riding one cycle and towing the other with a spare hand.

Not far ahead, we saw the Otranto tied up at the wharf and learned from a crewman at the bottom of the launch gangplank that the sailing time had been delayed for an hour. Whew! Hot and by this time really hungry, we strolled to nearby shops. However, discretion overcame our gnawing appetites when we cast an eye over the food exposed to heat, uncountable flies and the baked wings and leggy ‘things’ that lay openly on the market stalls. The ship’s dining room showed promise for the evening ahead.

Once back on board, we learned over the loudspeaker that the ship wouldn’t leave Aden until after midnight, so we took the opportunity to watch the huge volcanic skyline from the stern deck. At its feet, lit by the harbour lights, lay a beach of smooth golden sand and white, tumbling surf. Even then, we knew we’d never again see a city inside and at the floor of a freaky volcano. Our friends were incredulous, but looking back, I guess it was a risky thing to do, but we shall have these memories sharp in our minds for ever.

After all, isn’t that what travel is all about?



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