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March
18, 2022 The
Associated Press BAGHDAD
–“Iran claimed responsibility Sunday for a missile
barrage that struck near a sprawling U.S. consulate complex in
northern Iraq,
saying it was retaliation for an Israeli strike in Syria that killed
two members of its Revolutionary Guard earlier this week.
The
U.S. presence
in Iraq has long been a flashpoint for Tehran, but tensions spiked
after a January 2020 U.S. drone strike near the Baghdad airport
killed a top Iranian general. In retaliation, Iran launched a barrage
of missiles at al-Asad airbase, where U.S. troops were stationed.
More than 100 service members suffered traumatic brain injuries in
the blasts.”
Let’s
talk about that January 2020 U.S. drone strike near the Baghdad
airport that killed a top Iranian general. Many of us may not
remember where we were when it happened. I remember clearly because
my partner and I were in the United Arab Republic (UAE). We thought
political tensions might make our goal of understanding the area
challenging, but we hadn’t anticipated that we would have a
direct confrontation with the human
consequences of war.
Fetching
white scarf-swathed Emirates air hostesses greeted us in their
professional tan uniforms on our direct flight from Seattle to exotic
locations on the Arabian Sea on January 2, 2020. November through
April is the tourist season, so we timed it perfectly, we thought.
Little did we expect a challenge to that assumption.
Think
of an hourglass tipped to the left. That’s the Arabian Sea. The
top half of the sea is the Persian Gulf with Iraq in the North. Iran
is the landmass on the right side of the Persian Gulf, and Saudi
Arabia is most of the landmass on the left. Some countries share the
Persian Gulf with Saudi Arabia. The first to share as we move south
is the island of Bahrain, then the peninsula of Qatar and finally the
United Arab Emirates (UAE). At this point the hourglass tightens to a
narrow neck at the Strait of Hormuz. Once we have moved south through
the Strait, the Arabian Sea becomes the Gulf of Oman. The country of
Oman is on the left of the Gulf, and Iran is still on the right
border. That gives an idea of its size. The Gulf of Oman opens to the
Arabian as it streams south.
Dubai,
where we deplaned, is one of seven emirates, independent city-states
that make up the UAE. We felt the scale of the country as soon as we
strolled down the palm tree-lined
walkway in
the vast Dubai airport. The Marriott Hotel seconded that
impression its massive breakfast room where diners can order any
variety of eggs. Best is the mouth-watering egg bhurji with its
Indian curry, onions, tomatoes and green chili.
The
goal for our first day was to go to the top of the Burj Kalifa, the
world’s tallest building. So smooth was the ascent that we
barely knew we’d arrived. We enjoyed high tea (appropriately)
and surveyed the Gulf below where the buildings looked like dusty
brown Lego creations.
When
we boarded our ship, the Bellissima, we noted that the interior
corridor looked like the Mall of America. Clothing and cosmetics
shops vied for attention with a chocolate shop that featured a moving
stellar constellation -- all in chocolate.
We
wrapped ourselves in the warmth of the mid-70s arid,
subtropical climate so blissfully that we were unaware that on
January 3, the U.S. assassinated Iran's
top commander, General Quassem Soleimani. He orchestrated hits that
killed over 600 U.S.
troops. The
Pentagon claimed that
he was the
mastermind of Iran’s Quds Force that “was
actively developing plans to attack American diplomats and service
members in Iraq and throughout the region.”
When
we caught up with that information, the U.S. troops were being
deployed to the Strait of Hormuz, directly in our pathway. That gave
us pause, especially since we had friends who were mid-trip in the
UAE, and they emailed us that the leader of that group canceled their
trip. Our friends scrambled to get tickets home. Should we?
CNN
stated that Iran vowed revenge. We knew to take that determination
seriously, but calculated that it would take time for
Iran to
retaliate because the country was now bereft of Soleimani to
orchestrate attacks. Iran needed time to regroup. Could we see all we
had come to see before they did retaliate? Perhaps unwisely, we
concluded that because our ship was an Italian liner, it would
provide good cover for the very few Americans aboard. We decided to
stay the course, at
least for now.
We
spent several days in Dubai as the captain assessed whether to pull
up anchor. We were grateful he was proceeding cautiously. We were
feeling happy to leave that decision in his hands and explored the
attractions onshore. We hoped we’d feel that way tomorrow.
Dubai’s
skyscrapers feature shopping malls that include ice rinks, aquariums
and ski slopes. Shopping fills people’s time because of the
air-conditioned buildings, not because the prices are affordable;
they’re not. Reflective blue windows shimmered from colossal
buildings shaped like cones, picture frames and boat sails. The Burj
al Arab Hotel’s foundation took three years to prepare by
importing rocks and compressing sand. Soon a 56-story building
dominated land that was previously a sand spit.
We
didn’t see any signs of danger in Dubai, so we stayed aboard as
the ship sailed to Abu Dhabi. A viscous
smog
from desert winds mixed with sand prevented
a clear look at the sky as we arrived.
That
didn’t stop us, though, from hopping onto the bus when we
docked to view even more unusually shaped, tall buildings formed into
zig-zags and spirals.
Our
friends who were returning to the U.S. emailed us as they boarded the
plane for Seattle. They had tucked away in the mountains of Oman
while they hassled for three days to buy tickets for home. Their tale
gave us pause, but we decided again to trust the ship’s captain
who had previously delayed moving further into the Gulf when he
sensed trouble. He was ready to sail, so though we were a little
shaky, we stayed aboard toward Bahrain.
CNN
announced that Iran threatened to attack Haifa, Israel and Dubai if
the U.S. bombs Iranian soil. That news greeted us as we left Bahrain
to sail south towards Qatar. Dubai was a stone’s throw away.
What now? Were we in a bubble where we thought we were safe from harm
because we were on an Italian cruise liner? As we considered
abandoning ship, we revisited how frustrated our friends were with
re-ticketing. It would take us at least three days, and we already
had confirmed tickets. We deliberated once again and decided to trust
the captain who must have had more information than we had. Right?
When
we awoke on January 9, we found that Iran had fired missile strikes
on the U.S. base in Iraq the night before. That shook us to the core.
The attack had been a few hours away when the U.S.
received
news of Iran’s intention to level Al Asad Airbase. The U.S.
knew that the Iranians were using satellite pictures of the base, so
the U.S. devised a strategy to wait until it was too dark for the
Iranians to take more pictures and then rapidly evacuated U.S. planes
and troops. The strategy worked. When the attack came, the U.S. lost
no planes, troops scrambled to bunkers, and we lost the base, but not
a man. Marine General Frank McKenzie, commander of U.S. forces in the
Middle East said, “We had a plan to retaliate if Americans had
died.”
This
was the brink of war. We started to think seriously about leaving.
The next day confirmed that conclusion when we heard on CNN that Iran
shot down a Ukrainian plane. Iran had been on alert to retaliate with
the U.S. and mistakenly shot down the airliner, presuming that it was
a U.S. bomber. The strike killed all 176 people aboard.
Now
it was insane to deny
that our
lives were at stake. Fear snaked
into every
pore of my body like a deadly black mambo. We jetted into action,
making an instantaneous decision to risk getting off the ship, find
our way to an airport and obtain tickets—all in an unknown
country. If we had to wait at the airport for days until the tickets
came through, we would grit our teeth and wait. The fear that created
a knot in my stomach was the possibility that we might not get out.
We hugged, we cried, and we uttered insipid encouragements to each
other as we packed. My head burst with pain at the thought of not
being able to leave until morning, but we couldn’t. Neither of
us slept.
As
day broke, we rose and turned on the news. What we heard was that
Iran admitted it had unintentionally shot down the Ukrainian plane,
citing human error. Iran was standing down. We sank onto the bed as
we attempted to reprocess our decision. How could uncertainty creep
in when we had been so resolute? We kept revisiting how much
we didn’t know is that we stood on a rapidly moving tectonic
plate. I felt like a dog, circling around and around until it finds a
place to lie down. I couldn’t lie down. My stomach was shooting
arrows at me as I fought the urge to run.
I
kept asking my partner if we could believe the news. He kept saying
that he hoped so, but I needed reinforcement. I asked him to go with
me to the dining hall in hopes of finding an English-speaking person
who might bring some clarity to the situation.
We
made a nose dive for the senior staff person we saw sitting at a
table and begged him for honesty. He sipped his coffee casually and
opined in Italian/English that we were perfectly safe. He said that
the captain had spoken with the cruise line owners who had spoken to
government officials who had spoken to the U.S. Iranian ambassador.
The situation was under control.
We
asked for details. He had none. We asked if they had considered
canceling the cruise, and he said this was the third time on this one
tour that they had, indeed, considered. Not now, though. We were
safe.
Walking
back to our room, we decided to ask any other English speakers we
could find if they had doubts. We found a few, and all said they
believed we were out of danger. Opinions! That’s what we were
working with! I slammed my purse on the bed and screamed in
frustration as we entered our room. Opinions weren’t enough to
keep my legs from shaking, my mind from spinning and my body from
racing out the door.
We
turned on the TV again. CNN stated over and over that the situation
had died down. Trump
announced sanctions
on Iran. Iranians protested in the streets, and Trump supported the
protestors. He what? How crazy can a situation get? It did seem,
however, that the focus was on Iran itself. With hands still shaking,
we began to unpack, mostly because we didn’t want to fly in the
air along with missiles aimed in our direction. Danger lurked in the
air, on land and sea.
Perhaps
inadvisedly, we recommitted to staying. The next step was to explore
Bahrain. We did so, timidly. It’s impressive that the island
kingdom of Bahrain keeps adding sandbars to form such things as its
whole capital city, Manama. We tried to find it interesting,
especially as tall and extraordinarily shaped buildings dotted the
landscape, but we were on edge. My fingers tapped with impatience, I
had trouble focusing and I didn’t find it interesting. My
fault, not Bahrain’s.
When
we left Bahrain and sailed south, we found ourselves inching closer
to our warships on the Strait of Hormuz. In Qatar we disembarked to
tour the souk in Doha, the capital. Wafts of cinnamon and cloves
enfolded us. That unrattled my brain a bit.
We
joined an excursion on an old, narrow, wooden pearl-diving dhow. The
boat yearned for retirement, but we had a scrumptious Arabian lunch
that featured beef kabobs, hummus, tabbouleh (bulgur
salad), khubz
(flatbread), fatoosh
(salad with fried khubz) and chicken with seasoned jasmine rice. The
coffee beans aren’t roasted there, so the coffee tastes like
tea. Good food helped soothe my nerves—again, a little.
As
we did every day, we raced back to our room to hear the news. Today
we almost applauded ourselves for not fleeing when we heard Trump say
that Iran was quiet, but could we trust the messenger? He was like an
unreliable narrator in a novel.
We
decided to stay aboard as the ship set sail for a return to Dubai for
several days because we could get a flight from the Dubai airport.
That was probably the time to leave. After Bellissima returned to
Dubai, it would traverse the Strait of Hormuz to Oman. U.S. troops
were in position at the Strait.
By
the time we worried the ship back to Dubai, we arrived at the
(non)decision to delay our departure because the newscasts mentioned
that Iran was peaceful. Perhaps Iran was now pondering its next move.
Maybe we could slip the rest of our agenda into the time slot while
they pondered. With trepidation, we took that risk because things
seemed calmer.
CNN
revealed that the plane incident would take two months to
investigate. Now we agonized. What would happen in the meantime? Our
apprehension mounted as we contemplated the likelihood of ever flying
out of there.
The
ship ventured out on its course to Doha. We took
a desert jeep ride there. I wasn’t in the mindset for an
exciting adventure, so it’s not the desert’s fault that I
wasn’t awed by the sweeping desert sands nodding to the
occasional palm tree. No palm trees. No sweeping. Just sand.
That
night we were profoundly relieved to find that CNN didn’t
mention Iran. That gave us the confidence to stay aboard as we headed
to Oman. However…Sultan Qaboos bin Said Oman of Oman died that
day. He was a beloved leader who modernized
his sultanate while balancing diplomatic links between Iran and the
U.S. We’d lost an ally. What were the ramifications of his
death? We decided, yet again, to wait out the situation. Perhaps his
death would be a footnote.
The
issue then became that the country would be in mourning for three
days. What kind of tour would be available? On second thought, the
real issue is that we were about to cross the Strait of Hormuz.
We
walked a tightrope while crossing the Strait of Hormuz to
Oman--peering out to sea too often, pacing the ship and worrying our
way through meals. However, no siting of our warships. No siting of
other country’s warships. No incidents. We spotted Iran a few
short miles away, and after a nail-biting transit, we emerged from
the Strait of Hormuz. There we left the Persian Gulf behind and
reached the Gulf of Oman. We were then at the base of the Arabian
Peninsula. Our shoulders lowered, our moods elevated and we started
breathing more easily.
The
red and green flags were at half-mast in
Muscat. We hoped that the bustling economy that is Oman could find a
way to open for tourists, and it did. Oman, originally part of
Africa, was never colonized. Though it borders Saudi Arabia and Yemen
where instability and terrorism reign, Oman has been a pillar of
calm. Littering and a dirty car will earn citizens fines, so we
enjoyed a litter-free day there before sailing to Khasab.
We
awoke in Khasab to find that the ship had drifted us next to
sun-drenched limestone cliffs whose striations swooped down the
mountainside to meet the azure Gulf of Oman. Khasab ships its
limestone to Dubai. You already know the reason: it finds a second
life there as the foundation for Dubai’s multitudinous new
islands.
I
read that Iran’s revenge might still be in the offing. The
NationalReview.com said, “Iran’s ‘symbolic’
missile retaliation may have been designed to save face while Tehran
plots a more dangerous operation for some time down the road.”
I wouldn’t call it symbolic, and when the ship returned to
Dubai for our departure after Khasab, we couldn’t disembark
quickly enough. Fifteen long flight hours were a small price to pay
for landing safely in Seattle.
The
pearl divers, date farmers and itinerant Bedouin camel drivers who
colonized the UAE lived in mud huts in the seventh century.
Inhabitants declared their freedom from the British in 1771 and
discovered oil in 1958, sending the mud huts to oblivion. Now the
Emirates Palace Hotel rents rooms for $15,000 per night, and Muslims
can worship in Abu Dhabi’s extravagant Shiekh Zayed Mosque that
has 82 domes. Ferrari World Abu Dhabi features the highest roller
coaster loop in the world. Dubai boasts the tallest block of
buildings in the world, and the sail-shaped Burj Al Arab Hotel in
Dubai is the only 7-star hotel in the world.
Abu
Dhabi will soon house the world’s largest concentration of
premier cultural institutions which will include the Sheikh Zayed
National Museum, the Guggenheim Abu Dhabi and the Louvre Abu Dhabi.
Progress is unrelenting and impressive, but I hope that the Arabian
Sea souks will never lose their tanginess of ginger, chili and
saffron.
As
I reflected on our trip, I concluded that we balanced the brink of
enjoyment with the brink of war. For most of the trip, my whole body
wanted to run away. That’s hardly enjoyment, but the culture
captivated me. The irony, though, is that an even more insidious
killer stalked us as we sailed unwittingly along. COVID-19 shuttered
the ship and quarantined the crew shortly after it returned to Dubai.
Somehow we dodged yet another bullet, this time an invisible one.